Just found out h took s swimming today with OW and her daughter. It still made me cringe but I didn't feel like my heart was being ripped out like I did the last time I knew that s was around her.

I have been treading lightly in my own home for 10 months. I have decided I will treat h like I would any roommate. I will say hello and good bye and sit in my living room to read even if he is there. Any way this could backfire?

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15