nova,

I understand what you are going through. I still wear my ring too. I've wondered more recently if I should take it off since it has been a year since we have been separated. But then I remind myself that that ring is a symbol to me; an outward symbol of an inward commitment. Originally, that commitment was to her, but now it also reminds me of a commitment to fight for our marriage. No matter how dark the days may get, let it be a beacon to guide you to safe harbors. Just my thoughts on it.

Hopefully the rest of the weekend passes quickly for you. It's tough when you are left to the silence of your own thoughts not to dwell on the situation and her. Hopefully a good hobby will help. I listen/watch something on Netflix while working on my CG projects.


M:35 W:31
S: 9 D: 5
M: 11.5 yrs
BD: 5/13
W moved out: 7/13