Hanging in there means keep up the good hard work, stay strong, and know this does all get easier. Questioning is good, it helps direct you to the wisest path.
I relied on my kids need for me to help me with my detachment. I'm not there like I'd like to be, but I'm getting there. When I can't be detached, I take a few minutes of privacy as best I can to let out the pain, and then I pull myself together and do something with the kids. Helps they're on summer vacation -- this would be very tough if they were still in school. I'm hoping to get a job soon, that will REALLY help with the detachment!
Best to you!
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
