I would have to see a consistent pattern of him moving forward, even if it were in baby steps. He's been rather stagnant a while, but has been moving forward more the last month.
Personally, because this is such a big and potentially abusive issue...I would be very specific about MY NEEDS. Consistent counseling and progress over what amount of time???
I think that asking for transparency when it comes to anger issues is appropriate. We all know that anger in a relationship can slowly erode the foundation and leave the other partner with a few extra suitcases of baggage.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
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