You will be fine watto. The people on this forum are a great alternative to a DB coach. Keep posting your situation and those who have already walked in your shoes will chime in with great advice as well as help steer you away from mistakes you have or are about to make.

Best of luck to you!

Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16