It will cause them to see her in a different light. Don't you think?
I think it reinforced to my kids that Daddy doesnt hate mommy so they felt more secure that we are a family still...even though we look different, live in different houses. Again you dont need to say that, it was what I needed to say and it turned out good...well as good as it gets. Kids never raised anything after that. Disclosure while hard will make everyone feel better...even you as it will all be out in the open and then you can show your kids how a man wins back his wife...4Cs Calm Cool, Collected, Confident. You can be the man only a fool would leave. Got your back.
Me 42 W:35 M: 14yrs T:15yrs D: 8yrs D:6yrs S:3yrs BD: "I want a D"09/03/14 Sep: 30/06/14
Don't give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.