The question you posed above is a bit of a tough one. On one hand you want to GAL so not being there is accomplishing that and if you are not there you wont be tempted to discuss R at all.
The other side is if maybe after a week your WAH may realize not being around you isn't the greatest. Then he may show some body language to that effect.
It is your choice there are pos/neg to both so just do what you feel is right for YOU.
H has only been gone a week and these things take time. Be patient and just be aware of possible baby steps but try not to have any expectations.
Snooping is bad all way around, take it from me, my W is beyond mad that I was advised to find some things out to protect myself when it comes to support.
Realize you cant control anything your WAH does so snooping just hurts you in the end.
Your H has made choices and is on a journey of his own at the moment. Take this time to work on yourself. It helps a great deal no matter what lies ahead.
Hang in there!!
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014
