Hello Mr Hyde. .. everything was fine when s was in ER now, days later, he is angry because the camp director called me and not him. There was no point explaining that while both our numbers are listed as contacts they know me and not him. Just let it slide.
I really have let go of most expectations of H but he really let s down tonight and I am mad. Most nights I do bedtime routine so it is a treat for s when h is around. Tonight h told s several times he would give him a bath and put him to bed. Just before bath time h slips outside. After 15 s goes to door to call him and there is no sign of him. I figured he walked up street to the field he often sits in and talks on phone. I call him. No big deal he will be right home. 15, 30 by now s is screaming for Dad. 45 min I call again and he says he will put him to bed tomorrow. I ask him to tell s that and he says never mind he will come home. 30 min after that I put s to bed (an hour and half after bedtime) h comes in mad at me that I didn't wait.
I am just so heartbroken for s. I asked a L about possibly going out of state to live near my family for a while for help with s but it does not look likely I will be able to do that. S adores his father and I don't want to come between them but he is so unreliable.
Me 44 H 42 M 10 T 12 (at time of BD) Ss 20 16 S11 (special needs)
BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom 10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied S and I move out 3/15
