I am sorry to hear about the situation, it sounds very similar to my situation. My wife has a younger group of work friends, who are all either single or going through a divorce. They tend to go out all the time, and during these phases she is much more withdrawn from me. But when we spend more time together, she tells me she doesnt really like these people, and doesnt want to continue going out and drinking til the bars close, but it still continues. I get so confused about it all and just hope that one day she will come around and realize that if she just tried to have fun with me, we could be wonderful together.
I wish you the best and encourage you to stay strong in keeping yourself active and busy and moving toward becoming who you want to be.
Me 31 Her 30 M 5.5 T 11 0 Kids Bomb drop: 4/13, EA+PA: 12/13 Separated: 12/13, 3rd chance of counseling:7/14