It's been since February. I've been reading things here on the forum during that time. In the last month, I signed up for DB coaching too, which one of the suggestions was to become more active here. In my life, I have found that it is easier for me to offer help to others than to accept help for myself. It doesn't make sense why it is that way for me. I'd like to consider myself a somewhat intelligent person most days, but when it comes to this situation our little family finds itself in, I feel like a caveman picking up a stick for the first time. frown


M:35 W:31
S: 9 D: 5
M: 11.5 yrs
BD: 5/13
W moved out: 7/13