"Anyway this morning she said she had some paperwork. I politely said, just do us a favor and don't start working on the weekends so you can cut out of work to see OM...She did not like that...got all huffy that it has nothing to do with him"
Controlling.
"I told her the way I always caught her was the excessive weekend paperwork, before he showed up."
Controlling.
"Then she kissed me good morning and I said to her you still avoid my lips like I have the plague but when you see him its going to be tongue time..She actually laughed at this and said you know I don't show affection in public so don't worry!!"
Passive aggressive.
"Then I did say so when are you going to box up those brass rings and ship them back to him..she gave me the look. Still not ready I assume to end this immature commitment they made!"
Controlling. You're the one acting immature. A real man understands his self-worth and wouldn't care what she did.
"Here's my boundary ...you will not take that cell phone with you tomorrow...of course she goes off again... She says you are wrong I am not in a Fog...I am not a drug addict ...I told you it's just that he gets worried and he's a sweet guy and I can't hurt him!""
Controlling. Demanding that she not take her cell phone with her is NOT a boundary. It's you trying to establish control.
You really haven't learned much have you? Why do you think you're in the same situation?
"I think my wife is a little spoiled brat and is off her rocker."
That's evident it's how you think about her. You keep treating her like a child. Are you her father or her husband?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
