Hey Gabby.... I like the way you asked that... putting it to me as my partner Joe:

If I was running a business with Joe, and HE "expected" after hours I may or may not respond.... depended on priority. What he was wanting was NOT priority. In fact, I surprised myself and completely forgot. If Joe called on Saturday morning looking for info and I missed his call, he could then text & I would respond when I get to it. Again, this is not priority. If Joe called a second time, I would answer the phone & tell Joe I was sleeping & would deal with it when I got up ... unless it was pressing for HIM.

How would you be a partner to Joe?

Last night ~ I went out for dinner with a girl friend & my daughter.... I AM SHOCKED!! I unintentionally left my phone in the car the entire time. I didn't realize it wasn't attached to me until after dinner. I did not race out to get it either... then when back in the car, I didn't jump to find it either (forgot again)... NOW THIS IS 180!!! this coming from a person who sleeps with the phone on her bed incase of Xbf or business calls. <<< this is major progress!!


M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)