LT you are right.. very wise.. but it still hurts.. and no no note and he will not discuss the plan...he said he always needs a back door...
just finished a call with him..one hour..he sounds distant..but certainly is GALing.. better than me... he won't or cant answer direct questions.. Do you like to see whatsapp pictures of the garden? Answer.. well that is up to you.. Says that he prbably just needs to answer everything with no..if vague answer are no good.. then accuses me of not caring about his feelings.. but he won't say when I get it wrong..., I know detach.. it is hard... stay strong.. your girls are lucky to have you...
