I always hear that everything should be measured by "how is this going to help the marriage" and it seems arguing or making her upset may not be pro active. This is why it is hard to make those calls
Me: 37, WAW 33, M 13 years Kids: Boy: 4, Girl: 8 Separated: 10/24/13 DB since: 12/14/13 Big D talk started: 1/1/14 (Not served yet) Still living together/Separate rooms
