Yes, letting go of the idea that we control "something" is so hard but when we can do it, it makes everything so much easier.

I get constant reminders of this, as we're now dealing with a situation with our S21. As much as I'd like to swoop in and save him, it would be counterproductive. He has to save himself.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss