Hi everyone, Had a good day today. D19 and her boyfriend were here for BBQ. She had thought she was needing to leave early because her mom wanted her to go to her place but turns out that my W went to see her father again this weekend so canceled. His scan must have been good because he is going to get more chemo. Since I am totally dark with her since she left, I don't know. My D19 said when she told her mom that I was having a BBQ for the 4th, her mom seemed upset by it. Said she got quiet and acted unhappy about it. Oh, well, that's her problem. My W also is planning with my D14 on picking her up Sunday night or Monday afternoon to stay with her. She really needs to stop going through my D and checking with me before making plans like that!
Also trying to put together plans to hang out with some friends (parents of my D14's friend) next weekend. Really need to make a schule of when I have my D and when W is going to have her. This whenever she feels like it (only one night so far) isn't going to cut it.
My D19 and boyfriend got a dog from the shelter and brought him over to play with our 2. He' a really cute dog and only 2 months old. Wore my 2 out playing! I'm a bit worried that she is going to try and make her mom leaving an excuse for living at her boyfriends apartment. They just spent almost 3 weeks together on a trip and she's used to being with him. Typical teenager who wants her freedom. I'm making it known to her that isn't a good idea.
So far don't have any GAL plans for the rest of the weekend. I'm going to play it by ear. So far so good living on my own. Need to find a new "normal" for the kids and me but it's early in the process, I'm sure we'll get there.
