Wife officially walked away just over a month ago

[BigMac]

So, today I had my S8 (picked him up from the grandparents last night). We went and ate at the breakfast counter, played some Xbox, then went over to a friends house for a pool party / bbq.

I was posting pictures on facebook and twitter, and W liked one of him swimming, and then I posted a picture of a cat tanktop I had, and she posted a comment (this is a first for us so far.. OMG). I followed the coaches advice and just posted a simple back along with Awesome Kittee!

The sad thing, is that W spent most of the day alone in her place. A couple hours after I posted that she wasn't taking advantage of the 4th, basically fishing if anyone was doing something... 2 hours later she posted a pic of herself (which is normally her fishing for compliments, if she is feeling insecure)

The interesting thing, is she moved to be part of her "startup life" yet she is all alone with no friends on the 4th. I feel bad for her, but then this is the life she chose.

Looking back through my contact log with her, apparently the LRT has been working, as well as GAL. Her comments yesterday on facetime (dealing with D15 issues) was noticing my hair style change.. saying the girls Must love that. Commenting on my stuff today. Definately an increase in attention from her.

One thing that has been going through my mind, is say she does approach me to work on things, or to reconcile. What do I do? In my own mind, I'd like to take it super slow, to date for a while. Continue to find and improve myself, as well as verify she is improving herself.

The good thing is, I am keeping a PMA. I'm out and about having a good time. Spending time with my son has been great, I do miss him so much. Spending time with him, as well as seeing him play with other kids has been sooooo great for my peace of mind and perspective.