Yea, you are going to have to work on you before you get her back. Because IF you get her back, you may only get one shot at it. So why would you even want to get her back until you have made the changes to yourself you need to make. You have the time, use it wisely!


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16