I do wonder if Sandi2 or labug can advise on DBing after the divorce is final? I just wonder on how to apply this as I am rereading DR. Thoughts??

I'm also in my new apartment for the first night and I feel sad at how things are...really trying to look at it in a positive way but finding it really hard. Praying for strength and guidance

Me 34
M 2.5 (Both 2nd M)
My kids-D 17,S 16,S 12
BD 2/14
D final 7/2014