The well trodden path

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Keep thinking of relevant things to add on a regular basis.
Wife had cancer scare early 2014 which I think was the catalyst for her change of heart, at the time I was real scared & wanted to be with her during the hospital appts but she told me no, I shouldn't take time off work etc. & it really hurt me that she didn't want me there but I didn't read anything into it! Should have seen red flags but again she bottled her feelings.

In the last few days I've found out D22 has decided to move out, I fear this is due to the situation, she is very unhappy with her mom at the moment. I am probably guilty of getting her too involved during early stages of this crisis but I wanted my wife to understand this affects everyone in our family not just her. I have stopped recruiting now but D doesn't feel much love towards mom at the moment. I have explained to daughter that my behaviour has caused W to behave the way she is & she needs to be understanding to mom.
Wife has made numerous comments about feeling down or depressed in recent weeks so I suggested therapy as it was a big help to me but she bit my head off & doesn't want to discuss it with anyone else.