You are going to be fine. I really believe being a parent is the hardest job there is. You want so much for your kids and yet,they do become their own masters. You have to believe that the foundation you laid is solid and that they know you are there for support. In the end, they have to direct themselves.
Big hugs wii. Iwilllive be keeping you in my thoughts while you guys have your talk.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory