Yea, it does mean you are not fully detached. Being detached would mean his actions do not affect your daily life or mood.
It does stink that you are stuck with the packing and care taking while he is off having fun. But that is just part of the gig we have to accept
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16