I talked to SIL (where W and kids have been for last 2 weeks). She doesn't know what to say other than that W seemed more like herself the last few days. Rested. Not so frantic.
SIL says she knows W needs help, but she's going to have to want it. Suggested that maybe I ask W if she wants to go back to MC.
I have no expectations as to what will come through the door tonight, except that she'll be very tired, having driven all day.
I am totally focused on getting the kids and myself out of here on vacation in two weeks. I'm not going to do anything that might jeopardize that.