man I unfriended my wife and took off married to her like 3 months ago.
I blocked my H too because he started making comments to me that clearly I was going out with who knows who because people were tagging me in stuff. So I blocked him. Some people agree and disagree with that. I still have that I am married but he deleted his relationship status on his.
Thornton - I'm pretty optimistic about your sitch. I just think your Waw is really confused.
My WAW still has me as her H on FB and with my surname too 9 months after split. May change soon if she does have OM.... we shall see!
M 35 W 31 D 10 Married 3 years Together 11 Single since Nov 13 Moved out Dec 13 ILYBNILWY, 'I don't want to be a boring housewife, 'I don't fancy you any more' OM confirmed Jun 14
Following your thread and well done Thor on that text!
Quote:
Make your faith bigger than your fear.
is exactly what I need to hear. Fear and doubt are two things God never encourages or supports. As I said on my recent post think of detaching as surrendering and it puts this db into another context. Keep at it like you are rock climbing...find the next grip slowly and carefully pull yourself up the vertical incline with WAW.
Me 42 W:35 M: 14yrs T:15yrs D: 8yrs D:6yrs S:3yrs BD: "I want a D"09/03/14 Sep: 30/06/14
Don't give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
I blocked my W on FB as well as unmarried her. I have no idea what her status shows. Havent looked and do not plan on it.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
WAW texted my mom today (they were close and haven't had any contact since bomb). WAW wished my mom a Happy 4th of July and they had a friendly text exchange back and forth.
Probably nothing significant, but given the recent things happening in my sitch, it makes me wonder if WAW is softening.
Possible but mind reading. Take it for what it was. She made a nice gesture to your mom. When she makes a nice gesture towards you, then it matters
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
WAW: I'll try not too! But its raining over here so not much to worry about
WAW: Are you hanging with the family today?
Me: Its raining off an on over here, super humid! I was outside sweating like crazy
Me: Yeah hanging with the family!
WAW: I went on the paddle boats and got burned on my arms. I hope the rain stops for the fireworks!
Me: Oh cool! (Not the burn) I think the rain will stop by tonight
WAW: I haven't been in the sun all summer so I burned easy
Me: Ugh. Im pretty tan so ha!
WAW: At what pool?!?!?!
Me: Ive been playing tennis and fishing a lot dork!
WAW: Oooooh, are you playing a lot?
Me: I was but my elbow is wrecked. Ive been hurt for weeks. It almost feels like something is torn where the forearm connects to the elbow. Going to the doctor, ugh.
WAW: But not your shoulder? (Ive always had an injured shoulder). Interesting. I hope its nothing serious!
Me: Should hurts too but nothing like my elbow. Thanks
WAW:
Communication seems to be increasing a little bit. She texted my mom today for the first time since bomb and liked my first FB post since bomb.
Very well played....the dork part was a good touch. (cute nicknames are always a positive).
This was a good day for you my friend!
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
