I don't want to be hurtful, but I am going to be straightforward.

You are his perpetual Plan B.

You deserve better.

Let him go and don't let him drag you back. There are great guys out there who will commit for real.

DATE. Don't move in. No matter how in love you are. This includes with your H.

And don't ever, ever let anyone treat you so casually.

You are worth more than you've been willing to accept.

Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.