How am I doing this ?

[GoatGal]

Dawgy,

I understand what you're saying about keeping it from the children. But it's got to be so hard to be sleeping in the same bed. I don't know how you do it.

I wonder--and vets please correct me-- that perhaps one of the "consequences" of her behavior is that YOU don't work to cover it up for her?

So, if she's sleeping on the couch, or moves out, it's incumbent upon HER to explain this to the kids and why that would be.

If she's really intent upon ending your M, it's only a matter of time anyway.
Why all the pretense if she's really committed to "moving on"?

Hmmm.....

---GG