Hi, I am probably the last person on these boards to be offering you any advice, but i really like you, so will jump in.
I haven't had any relationships at all - by choice, but also by terror, if you see what I mean. However, they say the onlooker sees the game, so here goes.
Yes, none of us is perfect, yes we all have issues as we move through life, and yes, after what happened to us, we are all incredibly cautious if not downright suspicious of 'in love'
But I do think that to have a successful relationship there has to be respect, as well as tons of love and fun.
Now if someone has anger issues they are not a lot of fun to be around, as a lot of time an energy is usually spent worrying about their anger or defusing it.
You say you do not not how to handle these issues, and I say it isn't for us to have to do this. These are his issues not yours. It also worries me a lot that he isn't getting better but getting worse.
What do you want K? Is it worth it. Do you respect him (not what he has done in turning his life around, although that is impressive.) In your shoes I would run a mile, but I am not brave, and I do not know him, so it is easy for me to say.
How much do you mind being alone? What is the glue that is holding you to this man? How is loving and supportive compatible with anger?
