She says she's conflicted (part 2)

[RedHawk98]

Hey Ox, I'm just here to speak of how good that feeling of DETACH feels finally.
As soon as it happens for you, everything gets a lot easier!!

You're less stressed out and less likely to do damage.
Doesn't mean you love them less. It just means that you stop feeling the need to understand her strange ways and wanting to control this frankly uncontrollable situation.

It all came for me in a snap. I've had 10 days now of feeling as happy and carefree as I was in my early 20s.

Once you stop craving things, they tend to happen.
Strange little law of life.