Old dog seeks new trick

[Old Dog]

Thanks Wet

I've been working away for just over 2 years. She said on B day that she'd been thinking our R is 'transitioning', I don't know why it took so long to come out.

I have been dreadful at communicating. I was a contractor initially, then I was offered several short term rolling contracts as an employee which has eventually turned into full time. It's a good job, it's well paid in relation to similar positions. It's just miles away.

I always took the view though that it is short term and I'd be back soon. I didn't see much point in phoning to say 'got up, went to work, came back to the flat, watched TV'. What a dumbass! I keep asking myself why didn't I phone? It would have be nice to just talk about nothing. Although she'd been thinking about our R, this must have helped tip it over the edge.

Communication (duing the wek) now, is much the same unless there's something to discuss. This is something I'm unsure about. If I start now, that would be construed as chasing and she would see right through that in a second. What to do, what to do?