Mat, you nailed it. I have been going full steam since I was 17. The past 2 months of my life is the first time I have really slowed down (I pulled back at work to deal with this craziness and myself)

I am hoping that this gives us the chance to focus on being friends, and surmounting a challenge. Just right now, well... things went very far downhill very fast.

Me: 35
Her: 33
D : 16
S : 9
Together: 14 years
Married: 12
She left 4/14/2014
Separated: 5/25/2014
OM Confirmed 7/2014
She filed 8/7/2014
I Filed 10/21/2014
Divorce final 2/12/2015