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Re: Trying to stay afloat oad #2465363 07/02/14 03:30 AM
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bashy Member B Joined: Apr 2014 Posts: 273 UK	Well done! M 35 W 31 D 10 Married 3 years Together 11 Single since Nov 13 Moved out Dec 13 ILYBNILWY, 'I don't want to be a boring housewife, 'I don't fancy you any more' OM confirmed Jun 14

Re: Trying to stay afloat bashy #2465383 07/02/14 05:54 AM
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Mat Member M Joined: Jun 2014 Posts: 131 SE England, United Kingdom	Excellent! You made a great move in the end, and the thread may become a classic reference for the rest of the board members so thanks! M:37 W:38 No kids Together since 2006, Married since 2010 EA discovered 06/07/2014 W moved out 06/08/2014

Re: Trying to stay afloat Mat #2465439 07/02/14 03:24 PM
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labug Member L Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 9,676 Sonoran Desert	Go SLOW! Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13 Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss

Re: Trying to stay afloat labug #2465468 07/02/14 05:12 PM
Joined: Nov 2013 Posts: 2,799 Likes: 13 Colorado T Thornton OP Member
OP Thornton Member T Joined: Nov 2013 Posts: 2,799 Likes: 13 Colorado	Yep, that's the plan, labug. I'm going to lay low for a while. I tested the waters and now I'm backing off.

Re: Trying to stay afloat Thornton #2465731 07/03/14 02:16 PM
Joined: Nov 2013 Posts: 2,799 Likes: 13 Colorado T Thornton OP Member
OP Thornton Member T Joined: Nov 2013 Posts: 2,799 Likes: 13 Colorado	Yesterday was a good day. I felt pretty calm and detached. Went home after work and took my daughter to the drivng range to hit some golf balls. Felt good to be out on the range again, hitting balls with the Rocky Mountains in the background. Today I have a little anxiety but it's more manageable than in the past. It doesn't have the same bite it used to. I hope I can stay on this path, although I know there are hills and valleys. I also found that prayer helps alot. That God has me right where he wants me because he wants me to learn something from all of this. He wants me to grow from this. To be reborn. Make your faith bigger than your fear.

Re: Trying to stay afloat Thornton #2465804 07/03/14 05:13 PM
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Anders Member A Joined: Oct 2013 Posts: 180	Originally Posted By: Thornton I hope I can stay on this path, although I know there are hills and valleys. I also found that prayer helps alot. That God has me right where he wants me because he wants me to learn something from all of this. He wants me to grow from this. To be reborn. That is an incredible level of self awareness and growth right there Thornton. Very inspiring.

Re: Trying to stay afloat Anders #2465830 07/03/14 06:56 PM
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OP Thornton Member T Joined: Nov 2013 Posts: 2,799 Likes: 13 Colorado	Thanks DB. It's not always easy. I fluctuate between faith and feeling hopeless. That's all part of the process I suppose. Keep on keepin' on!

Re: Trying to stay afloat Thornton #2465984 07/04/14 03:29 AM
Joined: Nov 2013 Posts: 2,799 Likes: 13 Colorado T Thornton OP Member
OP Thornton Member T Joined: Nov 2013 Posts: 2,799 Likes: 13 Colorado	So I took my daughter out to dinner and movie tonight and posted on Facebook (for the first time since bomb) "Daddy daughter date night". WAW "liked" it within 3 minutes. I know it probably doesn't mean anything but I certainly found it interesting she was the very first person to like the post. I wont lie, it did make me feel good. I'm trying not to get my hopes up that she still has feelings for me.

Re: Trying to stay afloat Thornton #2465995 07/04/14 03:58 AM
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oad Member O Joined: May 2014 Posts: 207	man I unfriended my wife and took off married to her like 3 months ago. Me: 42 W: 39 D: 2 age 6 and 9 D-Day: Dec 29 13 Seperated: 3/20/14 Mediation retainer : 5/20/14 She filed: 06/25/14

Re: Trying to stay afloat oad #2465997 07/04/14 04:01 AM
Joined: Nov 2013 Posts: 2,799 Likes: 13 Colorado T Thornton OP Member
OP Thornton Member T Joined: Nov 2013 Posts: 2,799 Likes: 13 Colorado	I basically went dark on Facebook until tonight. She still has me as her significant other on hers, we've been separated for 2 months now. Confuses me...

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