I have read it many, many times in these threads- I mean He knows me - for like 30 years. He told me he as a OW He knows I would not get a divorce without a lawyer. He keeps saying "sit down and discuss the details".
8 weeks since BD. for the last 6 weeks = he asks about a divorce 2x - 3x a week. Who makes life altering decisions from the gut like that?
He is a big boy. If he wants an OW and divorce, he needs to find an lawyer and file one. He keeps wanting to make this MY problem. It is not. It is his. After my "back off" email this morning, I'm pretty sure he is going to file, tho. Im getting so frustrated, I almost wish it would happen.
I don't know if that is scary, or just expected.
He does not care about anything I do. He wants me to vanish. I am still in the shock faze.
Last edited by bugsby; 07/04/1403:42 AM.
Me: 48 H: 48 Married 26 , together 30 D1: 21 D2: 18 "Happily Married" until BD 4 weeks later: "Im talking to someone" No papers filed. Attempting 180, finding it difficult.
