Ox, can you make her change her brain, her mind? No? Then stop focusing on what she does. Focus on you. She will do what she wants to do, as always. YOUR job is to work on your temper, your mouth, your tendency to put your foot in your mouth. If you spent half as much time thinking about that stuff, practicing, planning your words, as you do obsessing about what she's doing and about putting OM down, you'd have her won over by now.
