I just left J's house for the birthday thing for D. J had originally asked me to come by at 6:30. He called about 5:45 and said he wanted me to be aware that OW was going to be there. I was fine with it and hoped that meant she wouldn't be at the party I was having for D. From what J told me, OW seemed a bit put out by me being there. J said he told her I was D's mom and that I was going to be there. I said I'm not going anywhere and J said he told OW that. Noe I don't know if that's the truth, but that's the story anyhow.
I got there and the kids (and the dog) were thrilled to see me. J and OW were upstairs when I got there so I just hung with the kids. Then J came down and ow was not far behind. Ow did not look Pleased. We did cake and presents and I listened to OW make snippy snide comments to everyone who would listen. She was not very nice to J, but he made his bed.
So for D's birthday J got her a ceiling fan (princess style) and he's putting up a zip line (OW made sure to stress it was for ALL the kids). OW bought her a fancy curtain rod.
OW clung to J like white on rice. She was throwing daggers in my direction and had to know every little detail of what J and I were discussing about S's upcoming mission trip. I got a huge uneasy vibe from her. I can't take much of her. I went outside with the kids to get out of that house. It's absolutely toxic. Finally I had to leave. S and D didn't want me to go, but enough was enough and I left. I asked S's GF if she needed a ride home and S begged her to stay even though she was ready to leave too.
I am glad I am not the only one who sees the crazy. Ugh!
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"