"I just want to add that if we end up divorced that this will be among the dumbest, most unnecessary divorces I can imagine. Just really friction asinine and stupid because I'm sitting here saying I can accept that you cheated on me because now we can finally fix this sucky marriage and HE'S the one running away because he's too chicken s&@t to face his issues like a proper grown up and instead has to throw a freaking grenade in the middle of all our lives and dismantle his family and abandon me 700 miles away from any family just so he can go act like he's 22 again and not have to face his balding head and the fact that his daughter is growing up."--Maybell
I AGREE 100%!!! Here too!
"What a tool." Yup. Here too! -----------------------------------------------------
Claire's right and so are you, Maybell. Take advantage of the fact he's gone. Sometimes it's a relief to get away from all the insanity...
So, yeah, pour that drink, watch a show that your H would complain about, take a hot bath, curl up with a good book... It's YOUR NIGHT! Do whatever you want!
Personally, I'm happy Mr. Crazy is gone. Now I'm going to make a nice meal for myself and watch a scary movie with the mutts.
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Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?