"The third time's lucky. "

[TL72*]

Hey cc, I definitely changed all my benificiarys on my IRA and even my work accidental death life insurance policy. I covered all my bases
My mother passed this morning at 1am. I did tell her yesterday to let go, she was in terrible shape yesterday. Today we cleaned out her closet and they came and picked up the hospital bed and equipment for hospice. I'm glad she's no longer suffering.
On another note, I had received an email from the title company needing my exh's info so that they could contact him to sign the release on the title. I gave it to them and went ahead and emailed ex H letting him know that someone would be contacting him about that. Keep in mind that HE left me, HE filed for divorce, HE put in the papers that I had to refi, HE is the one that put in the papers that he wanted NOTHING from the house. The divorce is final now for 3 months and about a month ago HE left me an angry voicemail wanting me to refi now and not wait (I had a year, it was in the divorce decree). I had already started the refi the day before he left that message. Now I get this email this morning - which I was already feeling crappy due to my mother's ordeal, and he knows nothing of my personal business, but he wrote this in response to my email :
"I see. So I sign the deed before any money changes hands, relinquishing any rights to anything Sounds fair. At least it gives you the opportunity to f*ck me one last time. I hate this planet. Whatever. You'll get what you want."
nice huh? I did not reply. He called me twice later on and I did not answer the phone. no voicemail was left. Did he really think i'd answer a call from him after that email? I was initially angry, now i'm just feeling some pity for him. May he have all the good things in life that I've ever wanted for myself.