My mom has done a wonderful job of keeping W and I focused on the boys. I have told mom a bit about going dark . She has learned now to just listen and maybe affirm some. Other than that, W is trying to tell on me... "Did you know he did this or that." "How did he find out my new address?" Etc.

W can't or won't talk to me, so she calls mom. Then, this is funny too because she blames mom some for the A just like she blames me.


Me: 44, WAW: 49
S: 16, S: 12
M: almost 20 yrs 08/94
1st A: 08/13/04
2nd A confirmed: 4/26/14
Sep 5/15/14