Heh Sandi. Just read this post and it looks like it was addressed to me lol. If you can, have a look at my recent posts on 'Have I any hope...' if you have the time.
I feel in recent weeks my WAW has been using me as the person you describe above... someone to take all her stuff to when 'stuck' on a problem. Only contacts when she needs something.
It has angered me but I have not shown her this. I have went dark properly but have a feeling she has OM (although no proof even though she said she has met a guy for a few dates).
ANyway, any help would be great. I appreciate it.
M 35 W 31 D 10 Married 3 years Together 11 Single since Nov 13 Moved out Dec 13 ILYBNILWY, 'I don't want to be a boring housewife, 'I don't fancy you any more' OM confirmed Jun 14