I agree with GM. You seem like a sweet, smart, and successful lady. I know this will sound harsh but you just seem so desperate for any sign of something with xbf. It's the analysis of every single interaction that makes me feel sad for you sometimes. I, too, understand why your daughter wants you to back off. You need to realize your worth and it doesn't come from xbf or any other man.
I posted to you a while back what happens if you never get back with xbf? What then? What is xbf dated someone else? What if you meet someone else? Yes, I know he *says* after x is complete, he will be less stress and wants fun, coffee & cookies and patio dinners. Horse caca. Things always happen in life and voila-another stressful situation. Then what if after x, then y comes up? What then? What exactly are you waiting for?Your daughter is watching you and you are an example.
I know you are *trying*although wondering why he said this or didn't tell you that keeps you stuck. You would be doing yourself a favor if you just let it go. You are frozen where you are. I'm singing now:)
Hope you have something planned for the weekend:-)
Last edited by Georgiabelle; 07/03/1407:16 PM.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
