Not sure how to handle this. I know I chose to go dark, but her calling my mother to talk about thing's I've done or said without discissing with me is ticking me off. Today W called mom to say "she thinks she found a mediator". They were reccomrnded by a lawyer that works in her store.

Yeah, a lawyer that works for Lowe's is a great source for a referance.

Now W tells my mother she does't want to tell the kids anything until after the divorce... like this process will only take a few weeks?

I just keep telling myself to believe non of what she says and half of what she does.


Me: 44, WAW: 49
S: 16, S: 12
M: almost 20 yrs 08/94
1st A: 08/13/04
2nd A confirmed: 4/26/14
Sep 5/15/14