Hi all - "was never in love"

[Mat]

Wow db - for a tough question you sure have a great answer! I'll certainly take that. I mean it's all common sense really. But it's all in the execution isn't it.

In spite of the best advice, there's a chance I won't be able to avoid interacting with common friends. I think that in applying your advice, my attitude will need to convey "I'll be OK". If it's in a social event setting I'll have to enjoy myself no matter what.

The two things I absolutely need to resist doing is probe for info, and make a snide remark about her on the "christian" guy that she was hanging out with before I caught her.

Advice on not covering up anything is interesting. I wouldn't want to volunteer anything negative about her, but yes I suppose that adding lies on top of the situation is much worse.

Really good stuff. Thanks so much!