And what's this health issue, anyway? You've convinced yourself she's dying or something?
Yes, she's had cancer 5 years ago, and she has diabetes. I don't get it. It all sounds like excuses but they're so misplaced I can't really get upset at that. Like, it was more than a month before the first time I posted here, and that was May, for example.
Let's just not argue anymore. I can't imagine what you're going through and I won't have to find out because of what I know now. If nothing else, that's good advice I'm following from you and you can take it to heart.
My wife has definitely noticed the changes in me (exercise, dogs, training, playing more music, therapy, meditation, etc.) and they've been consistent, which I think is the most important part any time anyone makes changes. I'm looking forward to this weekend, and we're going to spend a lot of time together. I can't wait.