fix me is my com it tent to faith.also working really hard on not judging people and being less critical.
So what does commitment to faith mean? What's your goal in committing to faith? Lot's of people sit in a pew every Sunday (or whatever day your faith requires)but don't change a thing.
Why do you judge people? How are you going to change that?
Why are you so critical? Do you ever make mistakes?
I'll hazard a guess that you also judge yourself harshly and are critical of yourself. There's the place to start, on you.
Was your W tired of being judged?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
My commitment to faith has been a change in the way I view life and living my life. As far as faith I bought a bible and have joined the mens bible study which has given me a direction I want to live my life as a Christian. I have read bible faithfully 4-5 nights a week and have learned a lot about Jesus and his days on earth. I have also for last 5-6 months put the 6 yr old twin boys to bed. They go to a Christian school and we each say a prayer before bedtime. I want to be the leader in faith in my family and am practicing that the best I know how. As far as judging people I have made a conscious effort to get to know people for who they are and try and find the positives instead of negatives. My wife has felt I have been critical of her through looks I give her. she said I made her feel like she wasn't good enough. I do understand how I made her feel that way. And yes I have been very critical of myself throughout this last 6 months. I understand that I didn't love her for who she is! And I am paying dearly for that.
M 54 W 48 T 19 M 17 D 12 Twin S 6 Twin S 6 Ilybnilwy 1/26/14 A discovered 2/3/14 D filed 7/25/14 Sumons served 8/14/14
Need help with this one. Daughter has softball game Sunday against wifes other man's team. Early in season we played wife sat with me and it was hard but I did ok. Of course she told me A haD been over. Now that I know it's not and she has admitted what am I supposed to do, go to game and act like everything is fine. I am sure it will be very hard for me and wife cant feel to good either.Or take the twins fishing and let wife go to game. This is a tough one.
M 54 W 48 T 19 M 17 D 12 Twin S 6 Twin S 6 Ilybnilwy 1/26/14 A discovered 2/3/14 D filed 7/25/14 Sumons served 8/14/14
Or do I go to game. After game go up to other m and tell him what a great example he is to kids. This Is so hard I want to let him know that I know it's not over between w and he. I had texted him 6 months ago and told him to stay away from w and never to speak to any of my children. Now that he has listened to nothing I am angry with him and w.
M 54 W 48 T 19 M 17 D 12 Twin S 6 Twin S 6 Ilybnilwy 1/26/14 A discovered 2/3/14 D filed 7/25/14 Sumons served 8/14/14
A 180 would be go to game have a great time on the outside and act like all is ok. That would be last thing w would expect. Maybe stare at other m during game. He would not even look anywhere near me after last game. Any thoughts on this
M 54 W 48 T 19 M 17 D 12 Twin S 6 Twin S 6 Ilybnilwy 1/26/14 A discovered 2/3/14 D filed 7/25/14 Sumons served 8/14/14
Going to the game would be to support your daughter, wouldn't it? Om and W have nothing to do with that.
Om is not your problem. He could have listened to you and stayed away from you W and then you'd have a resentful W on your hands, not a reconciliation. Or she'd be on OM#2. Lose-lose.
Yes, we all want to let loose on the OP. They're a symptom, not the disease. Focus on what's important.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
