I had to know what it was like to forgive someone and allow God's grace and forgiveness in the process. Because I wasn't 100% in the right either.
Really grateful to have you here Betsey, sharing your wisdom with me. This is something I am wrestling with after last night's phone call to W.
We had agreed to talk last night to on home & finances. I called but was feeling completely off balance. We barely talked for ten minutes. Some very awkward small talk before we talked about the separation agreement.
Me: I thought about what you said and I will stay in the house. We should get a separation agreement though. What do you feel about that?
W: I agree, that would be a good idea but I don't know much about it.
Me: Okay, I will forward you the info.
She sounded very calm and cordial during the call. The irony is that stung like hell. Her new demeanor is striking for me because for the past year and a bit, her interactions with me were largely cold and hostile.
We both sensed the call was getting very awkward and quickly said goodbye.