My point is, you always have a "reason" why you respond the way you do.
It comes across as a lot of self-defense of your initial position and not a lot of movement away from that.
It's your call whether you want to make some changes in yourself, for yourself, or keep beating your head against the wall.
Same problem though, right?
Like saying I haven't thanked anyone (I have), saying I need to work on myself (I am, with examples), and contradicting other things I've said. It's hard to argue. Things get lost in translation, maybe.
