afraid I have waited too long #3

[nit84]

MrBond, Your W did not talk to you for three years correct?

Was that absolutely no conversation at all even if you were asking a business question?

The reason I ask is now that the hearing is over and my W knows I was advised to protect myself by my L, She is seething mad worst I have ever seen a human being. I asked if she knew when she was moving out and nothing. I told her I wanted to get a puppy and didn't want to have her need to work around an animal to move things out.

I again asked about cell phone and nothing.

I know she is beyond mad and it will take time if ever for her to speak to me again. She said I am dead to her.

I guess protecting myself wasn't what she thought I would do and I would just roll over because I love her. My feelings haven't changed for her at all.

Why is she so surprised about how this was going to go? I told her the day she gave me the D papers it was now going to be even worse because we are now relying on other people(L's) to look into our Sitch and do what is in the best interest of both of us.

My L didn't even bring up the possibility of an A with her L But once she knew I snooped a little she knew I probably snooped a lot more. She slipped up and mentions receipts don't mean a thing. I said what receipts? I didn't find any receipts then she said Well how do you know then? She didn't come right out and admit it but her body language, attitude, and some of how she answers some questions probably says tons.

I knew it was going to be bad just wondering what should do now. Any Ideas?