But I AM in a relationship with someone who is in a relationship with someone else!
He is still living in my house and actively planning activities with me. His relationship with OW has gone completely covert (which is different from how he started the crazy, when he wanted me to know all about his friend and be happy for him. Bizarre. I told him to stop the relationship. Surprise! He didn't. He just stopped telling me about it because it made me so unhappy. Then I would ask or suspect and ask...and...well, we all know how this goes. It goes poorly.)
I'm not sure how to disconnect from the relationship if I'm not acknowledging the affair.
