Hi Lisa,
Sorry to see you here. I have a similar situation except I have 3 very young children. I have no advice as I'm still struggling every day.

But, I'm thinking that I should also change my topic because my situation has become so much more complicated than when I first posted.

Hopefully we can encourage each other through this journey!

H:40
Me:35
D5
S4
S3 months
Married 8 years Together 17 years
BD: 5/23/2014