My H's MLC

[Ssarah]

I hear you kml I'm just concerned that because this divorce will be costly and complicated, things may get twisted against me easily and then there will be more anger and rage against me that he will not seperate. He's such a prideful person and so worried about what others think that once it gets out I think we will have no chance of ever fixing things.

That's the other thing so do we allow the MLCer to blame us for the divorce to others (like my H already has) and keep quiet about the A and what they're really doing or are we honest with people. We are somewhat known to many and this will be a shock to all as we were the "perfect family". If I am honest and say what's happening (even with taking blame for my parts) he will go nuts.