Carlotta:

I believe that I have to start very small and work up to my goals. Do you believe that a ND spouse can achieve the results I want somewhere down the road. I believe that I have already lowered my needs TREMENDOUSLY to even this list. My goals are for her to be HALF the women she once was. My true DESIRED goals are about twice what I have listed, but that probably will never happen. Honestly, what can a HD guy expect when negotiating with a ND spouse?